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PREPAREDNESS OF BEING ALONE, WHEN SIBLINGS HAVE THEIR OWN FAMILIES

It can’t be denied that our children will reached that maturity, have stable jobs, partners to be, and planned to have their own dwelling place. Phase of time moves so fast, changing lifestyle of today’s generation. Condominium, houses for bachelors and single ladies out there are offered at affordable prices. So enticing offers and benefits for these singles who dream of experiencing freedom to whatever they wanted to do in life. This happens not only to those well of single ladies and gentlemen, but even to low income who had work in metropolis out of their rural areas residences. The feeling of freedom, happiness and contentment it gives to each and they desire much. Old parents are left, just lucky if well off family, at least have household members to be with. But for poor couple, have no choice at all but to stay where they are. Many siblings are not mindful of their old’s. Though how hard the couple to send them to obtain good education, many got married in t...

FLAX SEED AND KEFIR- POWERFUL COLON and STOMACH CLEANSER

It needs a deep fertile, well drained, moist soil and sunny, but sheltered sites for it to give the best yield. It is planted between November or December, cool season. Incorporate it with flour for visibility of seeds since it’s too fine, scatter them evenly over soil surface then evenly cover ¼ to ½ beneath the soil surface. It takes 10 days for it to sprouts and requires weeding while they are young. Careful loving care of plants with organic fertilizer is a need to produce good seeds. It’s an annual plant, when fully grown reaches to a height of 50 to 100 cms. Maturity takes 70 to 100 days depending on weather conditions. What are health benefits we can derive from flax seed and other uses of it? Flax seed plant has many uses for man. The stem is a source of fiber for textile fabric as linen, oil is ingredient in paint and varnish, the meal is use as ingredient in animal feed. Whole flax seed, as ground (meal) powder and intact seed and oil in capsule, is a ...

WHAT MUST BE BEHIND THOSE PHOTOGRAPHY EXHIBITS

Vision: one word that best describe photography. An imagination or seeing. It’s the ability to envision a final result in mind’s eye. And make it so with tools at hand. It’s about knowing the outlook of it, and thus making it to realize. It’s never of the attached equipment. A keen observant is a need, and snap shots of things around. Both painting and photography are the same according to some. Why, for it a creative imagination which seems tangible. In painting, we can work freely in imagination. With those hand, heart and mind working together to envision what we wanted to be picture in a canvass. Painters, artists based their work of art, crafts on photographs on print. For they able to illustrate the right shadowing, colors, vividness of what they wanted to illustrate or to express. Photographers take shots what they seems unique, intriguing, colors, man’s images which would conveys messages and others. They play with their camera for that different lenses att...

MANAGING TO BE FAITHFUL TO EACH FOR LONG YEARS OF BEING TOGETHER

I never had a happy marriage, nor had someone loved me truly. A marriage contract signed not in front of mayor officiating the marriage. All done in quickie trick, married only in papers, not bind by love. Never had live in one roof, support for the child is out of his mind, even love for the child is purely out. I’d never consider it a marriage, just to let people know legally married in their sight. Though greatly in deep sorry for what have decided and done, what can I do is to just face the consequences of my faults. Yes, the very purpose of that relationship is barely for me to have a child. So impossible to get pregnant without sex of course, it’s the natural process. But having a relationship without love at all and only based on flesh, the outcome is so painful. A stupid decision I made and a lifetime trauma which I had suffered even for the child itself. Being abandoned of his responsibility is so hard, that shame experienced being ridiculed by relatives and n...

THE THIRD SEX

I am longing to have a friend in third sex, those men in physical body, but with heart and soul of a woman. I had met and have them but for a short period of time only. Their life is quite interesting to learn and be written. For many of them are successful in life, they are brilliant people, friendly, kindhearted, loving people especially to parents and relatives. Though there are many indulges in dirty life, like us too in normal general gender, that is reality and have to accept. But I admire third sex from female or male origin who remains as is in their personality. Those people who are men in physical bodies yet so feminine in carrying themselves, yet dresses up in men and as female in attire. I hope you won’t get mad at me, am just expressing my self- opinion, we are entitled to express as long as it’s not diminishing anyone. I had a friend, a homosexual he is and a secretary in a doctor clinic, so kind and friendly. I missed him so much. Had met some of them ...

BEING TIMID OR SHYNESS IS A HINDRANCE TO SUCCESS AND HAPPINESS

I grow up in a family where relationships are not that good. The youngest among eight of the siblings, I live as always apart among them. Four girls we are, but the three eldest are so close to each. I was tag as the ugliest with curly hair, the always go together and felt that being an outcast. The three are all males. Learned to be alone even when I go to elementary school, I find it so hard in mingling with classmates. Besides that we are poor and can’t cope with others who are better well off. Till high school days shyness behavior develop much in me. I have few friends, but at least they are really true friends. I don’t have male friends for I don’t know how to deal on them. Besides, am choosy in dealing with people. Experienced being bullied by insulting words is painful. College days are better for I slowly develop myself specially when I able to land a good job as telex operator in busy business city. Growing up with a sad experience within the family itself, i...

STILL SINGLE AT 40’S, A BRIGHT DECISION FOR MEN,BUT NOT FOR WOMEN

I can bravely relate talking about this phase of life of a bachelor for I have two son who are still eligible until this time. Why? It’s not a big surprise why there are many men prefer to remain single till reaching that age of 40’s. There’s no big rush for men, not like women who have to get married at 30’s as the last waiting of marriage. That why, is so applicable for them to be ask. It’s hard to conceive in that age for women like us. Some women in late twenties who got married, take a long time to go pregnant. But their edge is better than those women in 40’s for pregnancy often is a big problem. Medically and scientifically speaking, few numbers of women have a success of getting pregnant at that age. Not like men, though they reach seventy plus, as long as they are healthy, they can give healthy sperm cells to a woman. Young teen marriages are resulted from early exposures to sex media either on televisions, news and magazines, pornographic features on intern...